Saturday, January 3, 2009

I am speechless

This article was found in the Daily Herald. You can also find it at http://www.heraldextra.com/content/view/294066/79/

This issue has received national attention as well as appearing on the Daily Herald. Maybe some of you have already heard this story. I want to know what you think.


Tuesday, 30 December 2008
Provo mom leads 'lactivists' in protest on Facebook offices
Ace Stryker - Daily Herald

Heather Farley doesn't think there's anything obscene about breastfeeding. The 23-year-old Provo mom was told differently, though, when she posted a picture of herself nursing her 9-month-old daughter Margaret on the social networking Web site Facebook. On Nov. 6, the site unceremoniously removed the picture and sent Farley an e-mail explaining she had violated its terms of use policy because "photos containing nudity, drug use, or other obscene content are not allowed." Farley said when the company ignored her e-mails asking for further clarification, she decided to take the fight to them.
On Saturday, Farley led a group of about 30 in a three-hour protest in front of Facebook's Palo Alto, Calif., headquarters. The group marched, chanted, and -- yes -- nursed their children in a show of defiance. Though the "nurse-in" itself was a small gathering, more than 75,000 people have joined an online group called "Hey, Facebook, breastfeeding is not obscene!" since August in support of the message.
"I was just really frustrated, and I felt a little bit bullied because Facebook had simply removed the pictures," Farley said. "The Utah state law says that breastfeeding mothers are exempt from indecent exposure laws, even if the nipple is shown. If I can here in Utah sit on a park bench and breastfeed, why can't I have pictures of myself breastfeeding online?"
Protesters marched outside Facebook's front doors, waving signs with messages like "Your policies need to be reviewed and join the 21st century (and all other centuries that came before)" and "If you plan on sexualizing my breasts, you'd better be stuffing dollar bills into my waistband!" A group called Raging Grannies sang a song to the tune of "My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean" that asserted, "Oh Facebook, you dis' us so badly/ You denigrate the female form/ You go in and take out our photos/ When will you learn our breasts aren't porn?"
Facebook spokesman Barry Schnitt said most photos are removed because of complaints from other users, but declined to say whether anyone had complained about Farley's. He said the policy exists to protect minors who use the site from exposure to images of naked breasts.
"We agree that breastfeeding is natural and beautiful, and we're very glad to know that it is so important to some mothers to share this experience with others on Facebook," he said in an e-mailed response. "We take no action on the vast majority of breastfeeding photos because they follow the site's terms of use. Photos containing a fully exposed breast (as defined by showing the nipple or areola) do violate those terms and may be removed."
Farley said she's concerned that such constrictive rules could affect the public perception of breastfeeding and inspire fewer mothers to do it. That's a health concern, she said.
"I would like Facebook to reexamine their policies," she said. "I don't want them to get the impression that breastfeeding is something that is shameful or should be hidden."
Schnitt said there are no plans to change the company's policy. Farley said she and fellow mothers have been discussing their next step, but haven't decided whether legal action is warranted. California also has a state law allowing breastfeeding in public areas.

What do you think?
I think breastfeeding is a great, natural and wonderful thing. Just because breastfeeding is a natural thing doesn't mean that it is appropriate to do in public or to take pictures of the act. Peeing is a natural act. But I do not want to see pictures of someone peeing or pooping. If you breastfeed cover- up. If you pee in public go behind a tree!

These pictures were indecent. It wasn't just a picture of a mother breastfeeding, it actually showed the women's entire breast (if you know what I mean).

I am glad facebook is taking action of indecent exposure.

5 comments:

  1. I became aware of this because someone sent me an invitation to join the protest. I believe breastfeeding is a beautiful thing, but should be done in privacy and that is inappropriate in public or to even take pictures of. I can't believe some of the things they said in that protest... especially about bringing policies into this century or centuries before... in fact it made me laugh. I don't think women in previous generations flaunted that they were breastfeeding.

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  2. Ok Seriously, what is wrong with people? Breastfeeding is great, but honestly NOBODY wants to see it. If you do want to sit and watch someone breastfeed their child (and you are not a nurse in a hospital) then you have something wrong with you. It is natural and beautiful but it should be natural and beautiful between you and your child not the whole world. Some people are just crazy and have no shame.

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  3. I hadn't heard about all this. I'm totally on facebook's side. I don't know why that mom is fighting so hard for something that to me seems silly. YOu really want a picture of your almost bare boob for all your facebook friends to see? Why? What is her motivation behing doing that? You can share your passion for breastfeeding other ways. I'm a huge advocate for breastfeeding but not one picture has been taken of me doing it over that 25 months that I did. There are many acts that are natural but also private and sacred. I nurse my kids for many reasons, one being that it's a very tender and loving thing to do for your child and doing it, you develop a wonderful bond with them. It's something too special and personal to be photographed for all to see. Nurse, nurse, nurse, but cover up. It should be a private act between you and your baby and this whole to-do is a waste of time, I think. I don't understand her motive behind making sucha big deal out of it. Stop spending time fighting for your cause and play with your baby.

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  4. I completely agree with you on this one! I don't think there is anything wrong with breastfeeding but I do think there is something wrong with women who love to take pictures of themselves doing it! I just think that is the weirdest thing! I think you made an excellent point about peeing and pooping. There are NUMEROUS things that are "normal & natural" but that doesn't mean that everyone wants to see it! Sorry facebook lady, I have NO desire to see your breasts, especially when you're feeding your child! GROSS!

    And Facebook even said that they don't delete pictures just because they are of someone breastfeeding but because they show the breast!

    That lady is an idiot...

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  5. I'm with you... why on earth would you WANT to post a picture of yourself breastfeeding on Facebook?!

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